Meet one of my best friends, Maggie. I have better pictures of us, but this one I love because it's a snapshot of what the majority of our time together was spent doing...takin care of little ones in prison and loving them like Jesus.
"Don't be fooled by those who say such things, for "bad company corrupts good character."
1 Corinthians 15:33
"Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another."
Proverbs 27:17
"A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity."
Proverbs 17:17
Something I miss so much about Uganda, is the community there.
The people that I met and dove into life with so quickly I like to call "Friends turned Family."
Don't get me wrong, the community I've found now in the states is similar, it's just different and I like to use my season of life in Uganda as an example.
I wish that I could bring all of my friends/family to Uganda with me, and they could step on the red dirt for even just an hour and I could introduce them to all of my family and friends there.
I often wonder why it was that I became so close to my friends and family there. And after close to 6 months of missing them everyday, and crying more when I left Uganda as our taxi driver reversed out of our driveway... I think I figured it out. It's because the relationships I had were ALL built on Christ. They were all kingdom minded, and we all had the one most important thing in mind: building the kingdom.
Are your friendships, and is your community kingdom minded?
One of my friends made a joke one time there and he said, "why do we always do christian things?!?!?!" He said it sarcastically, and we all busted up laughing as we were driving back to a house for dinner after serving and ministering in one of the slums in Kampala. We were all tired, covered in dirt, and wet because it was slightly raining. But it didn't matter.
From that point on, we joked and called each other "our christian friends," and/or "team Rafiki" because Rafiki means "friend" in Swahili.
Why were we so close? Why did we all get along so well and so quickly? Why did we all love each other so much? Why did we get along despite ourselves being from all different backgrounds of life, different countries, have different cultures, speak different languages, were all different sizes, all like different food, listen to different music, and some of us were female and others male? How did we all adapt so quickly, and why did we choose to spend so much time together?
Team Rafiki
It's because we all loved Jesus. Jesus was all of our #1. We sharpened each other with scripture, prayed for each other when we were having a not so good start to our days, were with each other serving the least of these, thanked God for our meals rather than arguing over what we were having for dinner, we had deep conversations about life that matter and made us better as people, we encouraged each other to go for our dreams and goals, we worshiped together, we rebuke each other in love, and we held each other accountable to the standard of holiness and righteousness, and we had so much fun doing it.
And now that some of us are in America, others are in South Sudan in the bush, some still in Kampala... we long to see each other just like Paul started off writing in most of his letters. But until we (by the grace of God) get to all be together again, we pray for each other and know that we are all right where the Lord has us.
I pray that each of us are surrounded with fellowship that glorifies our Lord. He's closer than a brother, and speaks to us like a friend.
May we all look at our relationships, and may they be godly!
That is my prayer for you.
With Love,
Maddie & Team Rafiki